If you are my friend, a family member of mine, or a patient, you have probably heard me say the above statement. It’s the motto I strive to live my life by, and it has served me well. It is not always (often) a comfortable motto, nor is it (seemingly ever) an easy one.
But it’s effective.
Be afraid, but do it anyway.
It’s the reason I went to graduate school. It’s why I chose to train in yoga with a very intense, very intelligent, very intimidating teacher who broke me through my glass ceiling daily. It’s why I got married, why I ride horses, why I opened my own practice right out of grad school. It’s why I expanded my practice into the next suite over without knowing why (turns out it was because I was soon blessed with an extremely talented chiropractor to share the extra space with). It’s why I feed my dog raw meat and cooked veggies, which is why she is about to enter her 21st year on this planet happy and healthy. It’s why I began training in herbal medicine with a doctor who can run circles around me simply by inhaling and exhaling.
And after all this time of living my motto, what can I say? It gets easier. Well, more like it gets quicker, more succinct. More elegant. Less sobbing and screaming, more “oh, I’ve been here before…I recognize that tree…”. It’s nice.
Which leads me to what I really wanted to share, Neil Gaimans’ New Year 2012 wish for us all. It seems I have a kindred spirit out there.
I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes.
Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something.
So that’s my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody’s ever made before. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or it isn’t perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life.
Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, Do it.
Make your mistakes, next year and forever.
Source: http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2011/12/my-new-year-wish.html